Dr. Jack L. Arnold
Lesson 4
THINGS THAT
DISQUALIFY A LEADER
I.
Pride: ÒThe Lord detests all the
proud of heartÓ (Prov. 16:5).
A.
This is the most abhorrent sin to God, and those who are proud are the
least conscious of their pride.
B.
Tests for pride
1.
Test of precedence. What is the reaction when another is promoted over
you or outshines you in service or gifts?
2.
Test of sincerity. How
well do you take criticism from others?
You can give criticism but can you take it?
3.
Test of criticism. Does
criticism arouse hostility and resentment in you and cause you to resort to
self-justification?
C.
All the sins that might disqualify a leader fall under the sin of
pride.
II.
Jealousy
A.
Jealousy happens when someone has something or does something we want
or would like to do.
B.
Jealousy causes one to be threatened by all rivals. It causes insecurity in oneÕs position
or prestige.
C.
True leaders should only be jealous for GodÕs glory.
III.
Egotism
A.
An egotistic person is one who magnified his own attainments or
importance. He Òtoots his own
horn.Ó He evaluates everything in
terms of himself rather than in relation to others and
ultimately to God.
B.
A good test is to notice how you react to praises from men who are your
peers. Do you attempt to belittle
or to detract from others receiving praise?
C.
A true leader loves to give praise to others and expects none in
return.
IV.
Popularity
A.
To seek popularity is to want the approval of people. It is wanting
to be better than others. It is an
exaltation of one above another—ÒI am of Paul. I am of Apollos . . .Ó (1 Cor.
3:4-6; 9).
B.
To want popularity at any cost is a mark of spiritual immaturity and
carnality.
C.
Popularity comes to some people in the sovereign purposes of God, but a
leader must not foster popularity through manipulation and lies.
D.
True leaders turn their popularity towards Christ (1 Cor. 3:5-6).
E.
A test is to ask yourself when popularity comes do you feel a sense of
power, of being better than others, of controlling others? If so, you are abusing the popularity
God gave you.
V.
Infallibility (Being unteachable)
A.
A person may get the feeling that he has arrived spiritually,
intellectually and emotionally and cannot be taught any more or be any
better. He is always right, always
knows GodÕs will and always has an answer for everything.
B.
This person may never admit failure, mistakes or sin. He will not yield to otherÕs evaluation
of him. He tends to blame others
for everything (victim mentality).
C.
A true leader is always open to learn new things and accepts
constructive criticism without grumbling.
He evaluates all criticisms to find out what truth is in them,
but may not necessarily do all, because it is not practical to do so.
VI.
Indispensability
A.
This person has an exaggerated sense of his own importance. He wrongly reasons, ÒThey canÕt get
along without me,Ó or even more insidious, ÒGod canÕt get along without me.Ó
B.
He does not have the honesty to evaluate his own contribution to the
organization objectively, and most often others wonÕt evaluate for fear of
offending.
C.
A true leader is always trying to work himself out of a job, and is
willing to leave a situation if it will truly further the Kingdom of God.
VII.
Covetousness
A.
Covetousness is to wrongfully desire otherÕs possessions or
position. It is seeking great
things for oneself without considering God in the process (Jer. 46:5).
B.
It may be abusing power for personal gain—money, position, prestige.
C.
It is focusing on the things of the world and not God (1 John 2:15-17).
D.
Covetousness (greed) is a form of idolatry (Col. 3:5) because money,
position and prestige are put before God (Eccl. 5:10).
VIII.
Depression
A.
Depression is an emotional and mental state that brings deep sadness
and gloom. All leaders have ups
and downs in the ministry, but depression is a prolonged state, causing a
person to feel trapped inside himself.
B.
Depression causes a person to go inward, loose perspective and have a
false sense of values. While many
great leaders have gone through times of depression, it is impossible to lead
while in a state of depression.
Poor decisions are usually made when one is in depression.
C.
Those in a clinical depression should seek spiritual help from Christ
and friends, should seek medical help from a doctor and should seek emotional
help from a counselor.
IX.
Self-indulgence
A.
This shows a lack of personal discipline in small things (feeding the
flesh) which may result in bigger acts of the flesh—sexual immorality,
approval of people, negative treating of people due to pride.
B.
The key is moderation with self-discipline. Do what the Bible allows only couple it with self-discipline
and moderation (1 Cor. 6:12). We
are not to be mastered by anything or anyone but Christ; we are not to be
brought under the power of any questionable practice or habits. We are to set aside any questionable
practice that will cause a Christian brother to stumble or affect our Christian
testimony before the world (1 Cor. 8:13; 10:31-33; Rom. 14:21).
X.
Immorality
A.
Acts of sexual immorality, such as premarital sex, extramarital sex
(adultery), homosexuality and bestiality disqualify a person from
leadership. The consequences of
sexual immorality are devastating for a pastor.
B.
If leaders fall into sexual immorality, they should resign their
position and seek professional help.
There should be a time of restructuring oneÕs life, values and
priorities before any other position is sought after.
C.
God will judge fornicators (premarital sex) and adulterer (extramarital
sex) (Heb. 13:4).